If you are not devoting at least 80% of your daily mental resources to improving your inherent value, you are missing the point of this life.
These “game techniques” that you’re learning, which ultimately were developed to mimic the behaviour of natural alphas? Fuck that. BECOME the natural alpha.
If you are spending 90% of your mental resources on chasing women, you are going to hit a glass ceiling very quickly. It might be a high glass ceiling compared to most men, but you’re never going to get with those ultimate top tier women, the socialites, celebrities and debutantes. Just put it into the background for now, make it only 20% of your life, and concentrate on raising your value to a level greater than that of 99.9% of other men – and then the women will start coming to you.
How many of you reading this can honestly say you’ve done everything you can to make yourself the ultimate specimen you can possibly be? Are you ripped and muscular, at <8% body fat? Do you get your hair cut once a week to maintain your perfectly groomed image? Are you pushing yourself every day to interact socially with every single person you come across? Are you wearing tailored, stylish clothes that complement your physique? If you are pale, have you got a tan? Are you investing your time and effort into gaining your financial independence from work, permanently? If you can’t look around the streets, and see that you’re DEMONSTRABLY (not just delusionally) better than every other guy there, then you’re losing the game.
I’ve got better things to do with my time than chase women up and down the streets all day like some sort of monkey. That’s not the behaviour of an “alpha” if you ask me. Yes, it’s necessary to get used to approaching women, and everyone needs to go through it for a period of time to develop the skillset, but if you’re just boiling it down to a pure numbers game simply through the sheer number of approaches you’re doing, you’re missing the point.
Your approaching should take the form of a sniper, not a shotgun. Your other shit in life should be in such good shape that on the odd occasion that you see a girl who matches your extremely high standards (you’ve got extremely high standards, right? You wouldn’t hook up with a girl less hot than one you’ve already pulled, right?), it is an inevitability that you get with her because of your value. Your value which automatically communicates itself in a million non-verbal ways – your stance, your clothing, the angle of your head, the intensity of your gaze – because you know, deep down in your core, that you DESERVE this woman. The shit you can’t fake. Hell, set yourself up right, in a position of high status such as the owner of a bar, and the girls will even come to you. Fucking any girl over a 6 who will let you fuck her is not an end to be pursued in itself. It means you’re still trying to patch up some hole in your psyche and self-esteem by throwing women at it.
Where is your burning ambition to be better than everyone else? To win at life? To look down from the top of the pile, and say “I’m better than you all”? This is what drives me onwards. This is what compels me to never be satisfied with myself, and what I have achieved. And this is what will make me attain heights that most men couldn’t even dream of. I WILL succeed, and I WILL have it all.
Don’t be satisfied with merely being well above average. You should want to be the BEST. You will go as far in this life as your ambition allows you.