Three-Date Girls

What a difference a month makes. Over the period of the last three quarters of a year, bit by bit, so gradually I hadn’t even really noticed, my testosterone level had been inexplicably declining. That’s the thing with incremental changes – you’re not aware of the process taking place when you compare one day to the next, and it’s only when you look back at a much more distant point in time do you realise how different things had become. It took for me to reach almost rock bottom levels of monk-like celibacy and anti-social behaviour, and an “intervention” staged by my housemate, for me to finally realise what had been going on, and go and get myself diagnosed.

Fat lot of use the UK medical profession turned out to be, but with some hard work and a lot of research, I’ve just about got myself on to a stable TRT programme of twice-weekly testosterone cypionate shots, with HCG to stop my balls shrinking, and an aromatase inhibitor to stop myself growing bitch tits (as much as the idea of having breasts to play with all the time is somewhat appealing). As a result, I’m pretty much back to my best in terms of mood and libido. All of a sudden, I’m brining girls back into my life again, and actively pursuing new notches with all the enthusiasm I once had. It’s great to be back.

This weekend saw me do my first street approach on what I considered to be a bona-fide 9 – and I’ve got pretty high standards. I’ve taken numbers from girls in the day before, but more for the practise than anything else. This girl was 0.1% top bracket hot, and I actually gave a shit about the outcome, and was uncharacteristically nervous as a result. Even though it looks like she’s going to flake, due to my connection not being good enough on the day, I’ve set a benchmark of the standard I now expect myself to attain on a regular basis.

Pink trousers French girl also came over to see me for a second “date” (after blue-balling me in such spectacular fashion last time, despite me throwing every single LMR-destroying trick in the book at her). She’s feminine, submissive, and pleasant company – as I’ve found with most foreign girls I’ve dated since moving to London. She’s basically putty in my hands, but true to form, as we were getting down to it on the bed, every time my hand began to snake up her dress – *slap* – went the hand of denial.

In the past, I’d have been frustrated, and thrown the kitchen sink at her to try and get the lay, but I’ve come to realise there are just some girls who will simply not put out until the requisite amount of face time has been put in. With these low n-count, sweet, foreign girls, 3 dates always seems to be the magic number. Of course it didn’t stop me trying, but in a good-natured, “I’d utterly destroy you, and you’d love it, but we both know you’re going to make me wait one more date”.

To be honest, I much prefer it this way. If she has enough restraint to hold back with a guy she’s obviously extremely attracted to, then it shows she respects herself and has boundaries, and won’t just open the legs to any passing sausage.

The only problem I’ve found is that it can create a false impression of a connection. I find myself far more interested than I would otherwise have been, just because getting the notch becomes a challenge in and of itself. The last two girls this happened with, once we actually got down to the sex, the instant the semen left my body and entered hers, the spark faded. Mission accomplished, chase completed. All the little things you found so endearing about her not 60 minutes prior just start pissing you off, and you suddenly develop a strong urge for her to be elsewhere.

I don’t know if it will happen with this girl or not. At the moment, she seems cool, and it’d be good to keep her around, but I think she’ll start pressing for a monogamous relationship before long, which I’m really not into. I’ve been perfectly up front with her however, and she’s not so naive that she can’t guess at my nature. “Arrogant”, “masculine”, and “cold-hearted” have been the predominant terms bandied around. She knows me well already it would seem!

I’m on the mend, and everything is falling into place for me to make my final assault on my ultimate goal of having a harem of girls who are all at least a 9, with the ability to bring new ones into my life. I want this to be a reality by the end of the year. Despite being largely celibate for the last 9 months, my rigid adherence to my self-improvement rituals of training, working, and learning ensured that my personal development did not stall, even though it may have been a little slower than it could have been.

Onwards and upwards…

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11 thoughts on “Three-Date Girls

  1. Pingback: Three-Date Girls | Viva La Manosphere!

  2. Just wondering, did you consider the possibility that your testosterone problems may be a side effect of Propecia you’re taking?

    I’ve been prescribed it by my trichologist, and now that I’ve read about the side effects the perspective of having to shave bald in 3-4 years doesn’t seem that bad.

    • The side effects of propecia are massively exaggerated. Two separate peer reviewed studies on 1000s of people confirmed the existence of a 0.5% chance of loss of libido, which came back within days of ceasing medication. Propecia only has a half life of a couple of days. There is no possible biological mechanism whereby it can permanently effect your hormones. People convince themselves there is something wrong – it’s the “nocebo” effect.

      Take it without fear, and enjoy a lustrous head of hair.

      • Check this out:
        http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/j.1743-6109.2010.02157.x/full
        There are also some relevant studies in the “Cited By” section.

        The study basically says that some men who were treated with finasteride (propecia) have experienced permanent changes in sexual function, even after stopping the drug. Of course this fact does not imply causal relationship between finasteride administration and the problems these men have experienced. It was also scientifically confirmed that a large portion of reported sexual side effects of finasteride can indeed be due to the “nocebo” effect. However, I really doubt that one can trick oneself into permanent impotence / erectile disfunction that even viagra can’t treat.

        Apparently adverse side effects like these are extremely rare, so for most men propecia is safe. The problem is that these “adverse side effects” can be really devastating. Just google for “post finasteride syndrome”.

      • For me, the clincher that all these claims are unsubstantiated, is that there are a group of people attempting to sue the manufacturers of finasteride in the US, and they’re getting absolutely nowhere due to lack of evidence.

        Of course, everyone’s entitled to come to their own conclusions. Personally, I choose to not live my life worrying about vanishingly small probabilities of unproven side effects in something which has improved the quality of my life immeasurably, by giving me the confidence and peace of mind that I’ll never lose my hair.

        My symptoms of hypogonadism have been with me for most of my adult life, long before I’d even heard of finasteride.

        So I’d have no hesitation in recommending it to anyone. At least 5 of my friends now use it, all with no problems.

    • 31. After doing a lot of research, the type of testosterone shots I decided to use were testosterone cypionate (or testosterone enanthate, which is virtually the same). They do prescribe enanthate, but it needs to be taken every 4 days, and they prescribe it every 3-6 weeks in this country. You feel terrible in between shots.

      It’s relatively easy to get hold of from the internet.

      • That remains a mystery. If I look back, now I’ve started TRT and I’m finally feeling how I should do, I think I’ve suffered from low T most of my adult life.

        Each decade, each successive generation of men’s testosterone has been 10% lower than the last. The current generation is 30% lower than men from the 1970s. The ever increasing number of female hormones and oestrogenic compounds entering the food chain is the most likely cause.

        This is the post that got me thinking about it initially – http://boldanddetermined.com/2012/08/19/low-testosterone-levels/

  3. The problem with three dates or what ever amount of time girls make guys wait is making him wait so long that she becomes just another conquest instead of girl who is also interested in the man.

    • For me, the clincher of whether I actually want to keep a girl around is how I feel after I’ve banged her for the first time. So much of the time, what I had mistaken for actually liking her, turns out to have just been the thrill of the chase, which subsequently evaporates.

      That said, I will look more favourably upon a girl who holds out for a few dates before sex with a guy she really likes, since it implies she has respect for herself and her boundaries, and (probably) has a lower n-count.

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